Heya! My dear bloggers, hope you are doing great. I haven’t been up to blogging much these days because of some stuffs. (Sometimes busy + mostly lazy +a bit fuzzy. LOL). There are lot of things I would like to share from days. I would not blame the time, or say that “No time” because one thing I learnt from life, the moment we stop giving excuses, our life will move amazingly. I missed you my dear chulbule blogger friends!
Sometimes I tend to make quotes, Yeah “QUOTES”.. : P. I remember on an another day, whole day I was just observing people around, their reactions, their movements.. Everybody had different expressions, most of them were sad (lips curved downL) some were arguing and a very few had smile on their faces. They revealed more positivity. Well, when I was back to home, I was just lying and the words came to me
“Keep little heart in your mind
Keep little mind in your heart”
~ Khushbu (Jenny)
Thank God for bringing these words to me. Nothing stopped me to think more and to write.
I have heard some people saying, “USE YOUR BRAIN!!” And Some say, “LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!!” I think we should make both of them live together, think together, because listening to your heart and head is crucial to good decision making about your life (decisions in relationship, career, goals etc)
Little heart in your mind!!!
“Wherever your heart is, that is where you’ll find your treasure.” When you use only your head your experience of yourself and the world is limited and you miss out the vital part of the heart. Anger! Where does it come from??? I guess it come from both heart and mind, but our minds react at faster speed when someone argue, or when someone insults, or any other reason which makes us angry. At that time we do not think to control our tongue or actions. Anger controls us, in short Anger burns us!! So why not “Burn anger before anger burns you!!”. Next time when you get angry, knock your heart, try to be calm and peaceful. We must put anger/our heart in something wonderful, do things which make you happy, do any of your favorite tasks. That helps. Yeah it calms you down. Whenever I get angry I just take my guitar and start practicing a new song, so my entire focus goes on learning and by the time anger vanishes. See, there is no anger, only sweet warm feelings. Do what you love the most. Sometimes people are not able to forget the people at whom they are angry and tend to get in to the angry zone at another time. So the best way to over come anger is to use your little heart in your mind that of forgiveness, patience for bearence. Forgive, and be free! Every night before you retire, replay the day’s happenings, where you cheated someone? Did someone offend you, hurt you, or treated you badly? Call out the persons name from your heart and say “X- I forgive you and set you free”. This will actually set you free. You will sleep peacefully. Just like anger there are other emotions where we need to call out heart and take some actions. “Behave so the aroma of your actions may enhance the general sweetness of atmosphere”- Henry David Thoreau
Little mind in your heart!!!
Emily Dickinson has rightly quoted, – “The brain is wider than the sky” The human brain is truly amazing. Think about it, our entire life history and every piece of knowledge we have ever yearned is stored in 3 pounds gelatinous mass in our head. And yeah, today you are able to read this post, because your brain works :D. Because there is communication between hearts without such language knowledge, it has its own language, that can be only felt. So brains are important too as every part of our body. We live in a world which is developing day by day, where excess sweetness his harmful. Yeah don’t be “tooooooo SWEEEET” Sweetness can be expressed in many ways, like sharing a smile, speaking kind words with love, making an encouraging statement, making a sacrifice, random act of kindness. Sweetness is most probably expressed by our hearts. As with all qualities sweetness need to be balanced with a deep sense of sensibility and dignity.
Knock your brain, you need not be so sweet that other take advantage of you. Learning to value yourself is the act of sweetness that should be done by your mind and there is no harm in that. When you sacrifice something important for someone, ask your mind, “whether she or he deserves that” “When you’ll use your beautiful heart and brilliant mind together, you’ll see your beauty, creativity and light” there are many situations where we need our heart in mind and mind in heart. This was just one example. Do share your thoughts here by your valuable comments. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for reading and commenting on my post. I read each of them with a smile and it’s your response, love and enthusiasm which makes me want to write a lot more….
Wise People advise us to be happy by feeling ever tasty as your birthday, which i do everyday. But, what to feel when it’s the real birthday out of my 365. No doubt, i must feel as if I am @ the heaven and celebrating my goodness of knowledge I gain, love from all and the pleasant nature of the world. A few words Dil Se, for every Dil chahta he to make my day something special with every wishes i feel to the deep of my heart. The pursuit of happiness never ends, neither the interest of my blogger friends. Thanks for making my day so precious… Thanks to the almighty, my parents, friends and ever connected bloggers.